Do you think you’re attractive? I go through phases. Sometimes, I feel like everyone wants to hang out with me, other times I feel like I repel even flies. Well, I guess different people find different things attractive, but here are 7 habits of highly attractive women that I have found to be very true. These aren’t your classic beauty hacks, but will make you feel and look more attractive than makeup when you start working on them.
1. They Listen And Actually Care
Attractive people are good people. They have good intentions and one of their best traits is that they can connect with almost anyone.
Authentic and honest, they’re the kind of people who make you feel like you’re allowed to be yourself with them. They listen and they care about what you’re saying. They have empathy and actually want you to feel good, without being a kiss ass.
Think about it. Would you like someone who’s really awesome, high achiever, beautiful and funny, but only talking about themselves? Someone smart, who feels like his/her own opinion is the only right one?
I don’t think so. Attractive women like friendly discussions and conversations. They care to listen to the opinion of others, without putting them on the spot or judging them for their actions and thoughts.
This one’s quite obvious, right? I think it might even be the first thing we’d think of in an article like this one. Women who are attractive take care of themselves, but here’s the thing.
They’re not just attractive because they look good and put make up on or have perfect hair all the time. What actually makes them attractive is the habit of taking care of their physical and mental health. This habits of self-care gives them the fuel, the energy and confidence it takes to really care about others too.
So do they exercise more often than not? Yes. Do they eat healthier, without letting it take over their life? Yes. Do they rest when they feel tired? Yes. Do they think long and hard about negative comments? No, they focus on the positive.
Self-care isn’t overrated and if you want to become more attractive, you need to start doing it. I’m just talking to myself like a crazy person here, don’t mind me.
3. They Seek Fun
Attractive women know our time here is limited and so they don’t take things too seriously. Why waste energy on that, when you can do everything you do with joy?
Don’t get me wrong, women who are attractive do have their ambitions, and follow them, but they intentionally seek the fun part in doing that.
Trying to squeeze the most out of every moment, they can make a joke about the most awkward situation, when you least expect it. Which brings us to…
4. They Leave Room For Spontaneity
You’d know what I mean if you’ve ever met someone new and that someone makes an inappropriate joke, but in the most charming way possible.
Attractive women will surprise you with their wit, humor and passion for living right here, right now and creating moments, without manically sticking to a plan. They think on their feet and experience life as it comes.
5. They’re Self-Aware And Trust Themselves
Even if they’re wearing sweat pants and haven’t washed their hair in a week, they simply own it. They know who they are, they know who they aren’t and they know their flaws and strengths. They also understand nobody’s perfect and they don’t need to be either.
6. They Decide And Follow Through
Attractive women decide and just do it, because they like Nike. They know small everyday decisions won’t destroy their lives and make them cry under the shower.
They don’t overthink, instead, they follow through on the things they think they want out of life…even if they’re not quite sure it’s what they actually want for the future. They decide to try and to see what happens, collecting experiences, memories, and friends along the way.
7. They Keep An Open Mind
Attractive women are willing to learn new things and to invite new people into their lives. They understand everyone makes mistakes, we’re all human, so they’re not judgmental.
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